Yes, kudos to Levite & Hyacinthe for providing great advice.
Without knowing what you've tried or what you like...You wrote that you don't think about sex, you consider it chore, but when you have sex you enjoy it. It might help if you do some experimenting in an effort to discover what really turns you on. Research sexual activities with an open mind (you might be surprised by what gets you going!) & note which ones get your attention. If some do, find porn (yes, you read that correctly) that relates to the activity/activities, and see if you're interested in trying something new. The internet is filled with free porn, stories, photos, and video (short clips are great for testing the water).
The search function here at TFP will provide hours of reading, and some viewing.
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