| Good thing I refuse to have any children, "dear".And my pain the first time was pain.  Same as my cramps are pain.  Same as my paps cause me pain.
 If I am misinformed than that's that.  At my first gyno appointment, my MD swbbed me for my pap and I asked her where the hymen was because I was curious.  She used a q-tip and poked up inside my vaginal opening that felt quite a bit further that you are describing and said "there."  So, I believed my doctor.
 And the first time I had intercourse, I bled... not from the opening of my vagina, from inside.
 So I went with that.  Oh well.  If I'm wrong, I'm wrong and I'll do more research before speaking.
 My vagina and I get along quite well and we both play well with others, but thanks for your input.
 
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