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I know I am female but I don't really think it makes much difference - if I walked in on the SO with another man or if I had walked in on a female partner with another woman that would be it.
No previous discussion about whether I would be open to this situation - turn back around walk up the door, next time the other half was at work I would be picking up my stuff and leaving my set of keys at the apartment.
No discussion, excuses, begging.
They went behind my back and planned a sexual liasion with another person.
If it was a preplanned event - well that's different. But if there ws obviously no intention of me being involved in the decision making process that lead to the situation relationships over. I don't care how much I love the SO or how long we have been together - cheating is something I will not condone.
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Though me and my best female friend K have talked about being at the apartment when the SO comes home one night with one of us tied to the bed and the other one covering her in maple syrup (it's a a bit of a dig at the SOs Canadian background).... He is fully aware of our plans though.
That's allowable right?
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