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RogueGypsy · 12-30-2008, 02:06 PM

Go buy the Kama Sutra and read it from cover to cover, then read it a gain, then read it again.

You sound like someone with a mild sex addiction. Which usually stems from the feeling of power and euphoria experienced through sex. The Kama Sutra will teach you ways to intensify and prolong the feelings so you aren't Jonesing for it so often. That is for you (although she's gonna like it too). For her and your relationship find a new interest for the two of you to enjoy. It will bring both of you closer emotionally, which will help her to 'relax' more often, and you to better understand her.

She should be your best friend, why would you want to put that kind of pressure on your best friend?

If you can't just hang-out and enjoy each others company without the pressure of 'getting some', you need to re-evaluate your relationship. People change and neither of you are who you were when you were 16. Adapt and overcome or get the hell out of dodge.

From personal experience; if she once had the sex drive you still have, she likely still does. It's just being crushed by life and responsibility. The more you can do to help her carry that burden, the happier you both shall be. Just try to keep in mind that there are two of you in the relationship, if one is unhappy, the other is likely to feel unhappy as well. It's very possible that your discontent is feeding her discontent and making things worse. Fix yourself and go from there.

Brock

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12-30-2008, 02:06 PM	#20 (permalink)
RogueGypsy Insane Location: The Great NorthWet	Go buy the Kama Sutra and read it from cover to cover, then read it a gain, then read it again. You sound like someone with a mild sex addiction. Which usually stems from the feeling of power and euphoria experienced through sex. The Kama Sutra will teach you ways to intensify and prolong the feelings so you aren't Jonesing for it so often. That is for you (although she's gonna like it too). For her and your relationship find a new interest for the two of you to enjoy. It will bring both of you closer emotionally, which will help her to 'relax' more often, and you to better understand her. She should be your best friend, why would you want to put that kind of pressure on your best friend? If you can't just hang-out and enjoy each others company without the pressure of 'getting some', you need to re-evaluate your relationship. People change and neither of you are who you were when you were 16. Adapt and overcome or get the hell out of dodge. From personal experience; if she once had the sex drive you still have, she likely still does. It's just being crushed by life and responsibility. The more you can do to help her carry that burden, the happier you both shall be. Just try to keep in mind that there are two of you in the relationship, if one is unhappy, the other is likely to feel unhappy as well. It's very possible that your discontent is feeding her discontent and making things worse. Fix yourself and go from there. Brock .. __________________ Methods, application and intensity of application vary by the individual. All legal wavers must be signed before 'treatment' begins. Self 'Medicating' is not recommend. However, if necessary, it is best to have an 'assistant' or 'soft landing zone' nearby. Any and all legal issues resulting from improperly applied techniques should be forwarded to: Dewy, Cheatum & Howe, Intercourse, PA 17534. Attn: Anonymous.