Originally Posted by Anxst

Yeah, sadly if you don't have any real frame of reference for B&D/S&M things, you really don't understand it at all.

Heck, I can't even get either of the women in my life to understand my B&D desires. They'll let me tie them up, but they don't really want to submit to anything. So, I think of the majority of folks who read this, they just don't know what to say.