I was 16, she was 17. Bed was too squeaky with my sleeping mother in the room above us so we did it on the floor. At the time it was great, of course, but now that I know just how insane our relationship would turn out (6 years of craziness) I would have waited for the woman to whom I am now married.
I spent the afternoon of my 17th birthday outside of Planned Parenthood while she was inside getting a pregnancy test. I was waiting in stressed agony. Not pregnant, thankfully. Of course I had to be stupid and continued to have sex with this girl who kept forgetting her birth control, with no protection, it is a happy miracle she never got pregnant.
Now I'm married, with a beautiful 6 month daughter. I was very happy wen I found out my wife was pregnant. Maybe that should be a good way of deciding if you should have sex with a person or not: would you like to have children with them?
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