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Originally Posted by Martian
Man, it's been a while since I've done this. These days I usually just get irritated at indecisive people and close the thread. I guess this means I like you, maybe.
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Well I like you too Martian. No "MAYBE" about that. =)
It is not that I am indecisive. It is just that I had a situation that I am not a "pro" at, nor I think anyone can be really a pro.
I just like to randomly post up things that happen in my life, that the wonderful TFP crew, will be able to put some insight on it.
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Originally Posted by Martian
Okay. So. She said yes. You clearly didn't fuck up. Sadly, she was busy at the time and thus you did not actually get her number (in such a situation, I would've written mine down and left it for her, but it's not a big deal either way).
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I know I didn't fuck up. I feel that I am better off than the next guy who doesn't say anything to her.
This is where I should've given her my number. I know I messed up on that. I was actually thinking of that as I was driving away.
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Originally Posted by Martian
Notable: She specified 'my son's dad,' thus distancing herself from said man. This seems like a deliberate signal and tells you two things: for one, she has a son. Clearly you are not bothered by this. Also, her father's son is neither her boyfriend nor her husband. Essentially it was a way of saying 'yes I'm single, just fucking do it already.
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I am not bothered by her having a son. As for the "fucking do it already." this is where I choke up. I will work on that though.
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Originally Posted by Martian
Number one mega important fact: this girl is not yours. Until you actually kiss her and she kisses you back she is not your girl in any way, shape or form. If you start now thinking about how you'll divvy up closet space or what to name the family dog, she will not be your girl. Ever. End of story.
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This I do agree with. I do not plan these things, nor have I thought of them. I am not "clingy" in any way. I actually think she is not mine either.
Nice job clarifing that since I do see some people who get clingy right off the bat.
Thanks for the well thought out reply to my story here. I really appreciate that you actually took the time out to respond and read everything I wrote.
I do hope that this does not get locked. It was more of a "I wonder what insight TFP has to offer on this." Than " I am in dire need of help and without TFP I would not be able to handle myself."
Sorry if it has come out this way. I am still grateful to have been able to conversate with all of you with something that is going on in my life.