As far as us hosting your pic, Eva, there are two options I can offer you. Both of them do require a little commitment on your part. Users with enough participation are able to access the Exhibition board, which is reserved for users to post pictures of themselves, however as noted, you need to be an active member of the community to get to it.
The other option is to have your webcam (I assume you have one, being an ifriends chathost) upload your pic to our server for display on our webcam page (
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/webcams.php?s= ) however we request that the picture be uploaded at least once a day. In that case, I have login information to give.