What do you think about when you masturbate?
More to the point, do you think about things that you already have (sex with a SO) or things that you wish you had (a new position that you haven't tried, or a girl that you don't have)? What about things that actually happened that were hot and worth remembering?
One of the questions women tend to ask their partners is, "Do you think of me when you jerk off?" I'm guessing the answer is usually "No."
I've thought about past experiences that stick with me, that I want to experience again. I've thought about girls that I want. I've thought about things that I want out of my partner, but may be not possible/allowed. I have a hard time finding the things that I have explicit access to "jerk-worthy." I mean, if you could do it, why jerk to it rather than actually get it?
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