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Something about what you said made me concerned. That he causes so much DRAMA so that he doesn't have to face the question. This sounds manipulative and immature. If it makes you that afraid that you don't want to even ask him about his infidelity then that kind of behavior would be grounds enough to break up. I understand the kind of love that makes you want to stay. I say get out before you are married and even more committed. Once you are committed he'll get worse. You can count on it. Confront him over the phone maybe even if you need to but don't let it go and if he winds up and becomes Mr Drama then I would say get out. If it's not true and he truely loves you the way you love him he will be willing to face your fears and do all he can to calm them. Don't let him put the guilt trip on you. If you can share with a close friend of family first before you confront him so that you have someone to go to in the aftermath. Don't live with it or let it go. Hugs, prayers and good luck.
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