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Old 10-25-2008, 02:00 PM   #4 (permalink)
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There are many things here that we don't know, such as..... What was she like before she became ill? Have you noticed any other changes in her mental attitude? If you wife was reasonably healthy and fit prior to her illness, a major attitude change like this might very well suggest depression as a result of her illness. She might be turning to food as a comfort mechanism. I would suggest as the others have, a frank discussion of her health issues, with the focus being on having her healthy, not sexy. If she's depressed, the last thing she needs to hear is you telling her she's not sexy to you. You might suggest a three way discussion with her primary doctor, possibly leading to counseling for one or both of you.
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