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Originally Posted by little_tippler
and who is unresponsive to your attempts to let him know you'd like something a little different to what he's doing.
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Okay, I guess I wasn't clear enough before. Nowhere did I say that if someone is "unresponsive and unwilling to change," that you should continue dating them. I said the opposite, which is that as long as someone IS responsive and willing to change, then why not just keep going along with it? Do we not agree on that point? I did not say that I wanted to be someone's "teacher," and in fact I am willing to see myself as possibly someone who needed "training" as well (I certainly don't think that I'm the best kisser in the world, and it depends what the other person likes, too)--it's a mutual experience, both people learning together about how to please each other. That has been my point all along. And hey, it's perfectly okay if kissing is super important to you, right from the get-go. Everyone has their standards. For me personally, it just isn't the most important thing when I'm getting together with someone, UNLESS the person is obviously a jerk who doesn't want to learn and change his kissing approach at all. But that's more about personality than kissing style, to me. Hope that's clear now.