You said my earlier post was what you were looking for.
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Her initial claim was that she wants to "experience more" before settling on someone, but I think she's just wanting some affection and romance. Why else would she want to date random people?
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But then you keep answering questions, assuming you know the answers.
I think she wants this...,
Her initial claim ...
Find out what she wants now. Cut the bull. If the majority here, who are looking from the outside, is correct, you can cut your losses. If my words that she may
possibly be experiencing something have allowed you to validate what you think she feels, how can you grab onto that without confirming from her
exactly what she wants.
I hate to burst your bubble, but sometimes we think we know what someone wants and live accordingly when, in fact, we're way off track. Talk. Do a lot of mirroring in your conversation to be sure you correctly understand one another, because it would seem that communication is not working well at this time.
When the conversation ends, there will be no question. Have a problem? Question the source. Find your answer.