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Old 09-29-2008, 10:14 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by amalek View Post
The "cheating" issue is always overblown by the mainstream type of advice, and besides, I saw it coming. Additionally, the guy leaves today so it was a built-in commitment free fling. I do not hold it against her, considering the circumstances. Maybe she could've broke it to be me in a better way, but that's all that I'm upset about.
I think your mind was made up well before you created this thread. But you should really think about what you've typed above. Anything can be made to seem reasonable but can you honestly say to yourself - from objective as a perspective as you can muster - that her cheating and ignoring you are the result of extenuating circumstances?

If you don't believe yourself to be deserving of better than that then fixing this relationship is the least of your problems.
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