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Seems like you two both need to figure some stuff out for yourself. You need to figure out how to be less self-depriciating, confident, assertive, etc. etc. so that your girlfriend (or future girlfriends) don't feel like a therapist to you. She needs to figure out if she can be happy with other people, or by herself. It doesn't seem like she wants to be tied down to a relationship right now, and wants more autonomy. This could conflict with being in a relationship with you right now. Either way, whatever you decide to do, you both need to enjoy life a little more than what your current situation seems to allow...
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