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I don't think you'll know where to go until you sit and have a frank discussion, as the friends you profess to be.
If sex between the two of you hasn't been all that, she may be confused. This is wherein, I think, the discussion lies. Maybe you both lack the experience and she's wondering if she can't experience more. This happens to a lot of us at that age.
If she's open to it, it may be a good opportunity to work on this together. If you can really communicate, you can teach one another what you need to truly satisfy one another.
Or maybe it should have stayed at the friendship level and would best be served by returning to that level? This is why you need to talk.
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Mark Twain
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