Originally Posted by merleniau

Personally, I tend to have problems with porn. I don't appreciate it as "innocent fun" and I do subscribe to the idea that it can be a form of infidelity... In my mind, if a person is truly committed to monogamy and wants fantasy/masturbatory material, they should seek out photos/video of their partner, not another person who is photographed because he/she meets societal ideals of a sexual object.