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Originally Posted by merleniau
My thought is thus: How can you truly commit to monogamy or a monogamous relationship if you fantasize about fucking other people on a regular basis? I hear the argument that "it gets the need to have multiple partners out of the system," but what I want to know is WHY that is considered a "need."
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I don't think it's a "need" so much as a "reality".
Fantasizing about people other than your partner is GOING to happen, especially (but not exclusively) for men. If it hasn't yet, wait. Outlawing it in a relationship is an act of denial.