According to the boundaries set in my relationship: no, pornography is not cheating. Fantasizing is not cheating. Honestly, I couldn't be with someone who thought those behaviors were cheating and maintain a healthy, functioning relationship, as they represent a fundamental difference of opinion. Fortunately, my SO and I are on the same page and often enjoy porn together.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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