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I dont have all what I want, but I am settled. I cannot expect too much from life neither can I meet all of my gf's expectations. And life doesnt stop with your spouse. You can share your interests with friends, rest of family too. So do the SO. I think there should be some free space (not gap) between you. If you expect everything from the SO and build your whole life around him/her then I agree it gets very difficult.
If you do everything together then there will be nothing to tell or listen amoung yourselves
If you are talking about appearance, personality and physical expectations... I dont know what to say
How ever I dont think everyone settles.
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