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I've found that when I'm in relationships masturbating is really detrimental. I've got a LOT of porn, and jerk off pretty often, usually 5-6 times a week, sometimes a bit more, sometimes a bit less. I've found that sometimes if I've jerked off within 12-24 hours I can't orgasm when I'm having sex with a girlfriend. Furthermore, the constant exposure to porn desensitizes me to my partner...when I get bored of porn clip I just keep browsing til I find something interesting...can't do that as easily with girlfriends. I've decided that with my next girlfriend, I'm going to a) not masturbate or expose myself to porn at all so that I will remain interested in sex and enjoy it more than I have in the past, and b) wait at least a month or more before having sex. I've had so many one night stands I've literally lost count of my partners, probably somewhere in the range of 25+ women, and I've never waited longer than a week or two to have sex when I've been in a relationship.
In fact, oftentimes the impetus for starting the relationship in the first place is my desire to have sex. If you can masturbate and keep a good sex life more power to you, but I for one have a hard time and am going to try taking a different path the next time around the block.
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