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From an egocentered POV: what do you possibly get out of this relationship if you do start over.
From a bystander POV: once a cheater, always a cheater is maybe a bit harsh, but not too far from the truth.
It would take alot of effort and alot of time together I think to rebuild your trust.
Both of which you can't offer at the moment.
Combined with her pot-smoking and current attitude, you don't exactly align well with eachother (anymore), which I consider a key element for a long relationship.
Let her get her own life on track. Then and only then can you even consider if it's worth getting back together.
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