You need your 2 weeks to relax, recharge, be happy. That is what this time if for. Not for stressing yourself out more before going back to the military.
You're going to go see her and find out the hard way if you choose to, no matter what anyone else says. That's okay. My advice is to, first, hide your money! If you decide to give it another shot, don't provide access to your bank account. You are such a catch for a druggie and her buddies...a soldier on deployment. someone who isn't around to spend their money, isn't around to bug them about being on drugs, someone who isn't around to monitor their level of faithfulness around other men. My husband saw alot of this crap when he came back from deployment (from other soldiers' wives, not from me
) Keep your heart close right now.