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Please see the signs that she is self-destructive, untruthful, and untrustworthy, and RUN!
The problem isn't having a girlfriend that has guys as her close friends. The problem is a girlfriend/wife who lies, has obviously let drugs control her life, cheats on you (and probably did WAY more than you suspect imo), and has no drive to better herself in life.
I wouldn't give her the time of day until she does a 180* and cleans up and improves her life on her own. I'm assuming she doesn't have the greatest career going for her if she smokes pot every single day?
I know there are functioning drug users out there who don't allow it to ruin their families, careers, lifestyle, etc., but it doesn't appear that she is capable of being one of them. Instead it compounds her problems (and probably is a viscious cycle including low self esteem). If you stick around, she'll be like a dead weight around your neck, dragging you down with her.
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Coimhéad fearg fhear na foighde!!!!
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