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Originally Posted by Milnoc
In terms of body image, that arrogant pride in yourself could be just as vital in establishing and maintaining long lasting stable relationships. How many here would prefer to be with someone strong willed instead of a wimp/wimpette who cowers into a corner? For me, I'd rather go with the strong-willed woman over all others, and not only impress her with my equipment, but also with my technique. And if she becomes a bit aggressive and decides to pin me down for some action, so much the better!
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Why do you boil it down to a choice between being an arrogant prick and a solicitous nerd? I'm all for clarifying issues in life by attempting to boil them down to their simplest elements, but you've misinterpreted things quite a bit here. The choice is not between douche or wimp. It's between douche, a mature person, and a wimp. Just to take a recent example: Does Michael Phelps really come off as a douche to you? You've accomplished absolutely nothing by having a big dick. However, if Bill Gates, and Steve Jobs are arrogant, at least they worked hard for their success, which makes their arrogance more palatable.
Sure you can feel lucky, glad, and even derive some confidence if you know this is an attractive feature. However being proud to have been born with a big dick is like being proud to not be born with a mental handicap.