Toaster126

You can't win if you don't enter.

There are enough obstacles in life for you to not be making your own. Try... not just with the romantic stuff. This is a life thing, not a relationship thing.

EDIT: Also, there is a large "sticky" post about this topic you might wanna look at.

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