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Church · 08-17-2008, 09:19 PM

I think you're kind of in a tough spot here. Deep down it sounds as though you'd like to express to him your disapproval of her by not going, however you don't want to hurt his feelings. I say if you're not willing to confront him about about the issue, which I really think you shouldn't, then either just go to support him, or make up an excuse not to. He may be marrying the wrong girl in your eyes, but the fact remains that he IS getting married, and thats stressful enough without having a good friend of his flake out on him at the last minute for a reason like that.

08-17-2008, 09:19 PM	#8 (permalink)
Church Tilted F*ckhead Location: New Jersey	I think you're kind of in a tough spot here. Deep down it sounds as though you'd like to express to him your disapproval of her by not going, however you don't want to hurt his feelings. I say if you're not willing to confront him about about the issue, which I really think you shouldn't, then either just go to support him, or make up an excuse not to. He may be marrying the wrong girl in your eyes, but the fact remains that he IS getting married, and thats stressful enough without having a good friend of his flake out on him at the last minute for a reason like that. __________________ Through counter-intelligence, it should be possible to pinpoint potential trouble makers, and neutralize them.