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I agree with what many others have said. I think it's pretty much hardwired in, it either work for you or it doesn't. How it got there... who knows? Nature? Nurture? Really who cares? I think we all have physical types we find attractive. personally I think some of it's learned behavior. I've always had a thing for fair skinned redheads since my junior year in high school.... and I know exactly why. I have a friend, really more of a friend of a friend, who seems to really like large ladies. Really large. The other day over dinner he mentioned how much he liked the waitress. I think his exact words were "she's hot." I'm guessing she was well over 250lbs and not much over 5'. I thought maybe there was some cultural or crude joke thing happening. I asked my friend later if he was kidding or being mean, or??? "No, all his girlfriends have been really large." Not my cup of tea, but if it works for him more power to him. Someone for everyone.
With my personal preference I view my current residence as a sort cruel ironic joke.
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