Sound, look at it this way: I was born with a cardiovascular defect known as a coarctation of the aorta. Should I be ashamed of that? I have the genes for alcoholism, too. And obesity (I have to diet and exercise for the rest of my life or I look like John Goodman). Should I feel shame for these?
I kinda doubt it. Be proud that you've been with lovely ladies. Be proud that they developed feelings because of the man that you grew into through hard work and perseverance. That's where the real pride comes in.
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