I don't have any friends in real life (whom I haven't met first via TFP) with whom I could do this. The one time that it did happen at a social gathering, it was very unexpected and disturbing... and it eventually gave me cause to sever the friendship.
The only way that I could attend something like this, would be if ktspktsp and I were both equally and totally fine with it, and fine with the "anything goes" thing (e.g. we would both know and be fine with the other person getting physically involved with someone else at the party). I would not go if he felt any reservations about any part of it, and I know he wouldn't go if I felt the same way. It would have to be all or nothing, as are most things involving a couple exploring new aspects of their sexual relationship.
In other words, as a married person, I would not make a decision about something like this very casually... even if we're both the curious types, the repercussions are quite serious if events do not go as we foresaw.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
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