In a sense I know what you feel but I've learned in MY 3 years with the same guy, he has his vices- his toys- his enjoyment- and from my standpoint it's not bad. Once you learn to let him enjoy being him on his own, he'll thank you for it and show you more love when he's with you. It's just his time to 'get away'. Guys, especially, are like that. If no harm is being done, then let him be. Take that time to do something for yourself.
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Well, isn't that just kick-you-in-the-crotch, spit-on-your-neck fantastic?!?
*Without energy, there would be nothing.*
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