a little while back I was at my boyfriends house and I found a condom wrapper in with his clothes when I was putting away his laundry. I asked him about it and he told me that it must of been one of his friends using his room. He swears up and down that it was not him. My instinct instantly told me that he wasn't being honest( Why would one of his friends stash a empty wrapper in with his clothes?) but I let myself overlook my gut feeling. Then a couple of weeks later I went into his drawer to get a picture of us so I could frame it for him.( It's our year anniversary on the forth of july, I thought it would be a great gift.) when I was looking for the picture i found two of the same condoms in a box that came with three in it. So now I know that it had to be him. None of his friends would go into his things. He'd raise hell. I haven't said anything to him yet. He's the type of guy that freaks out if you ask him about things like that and causes so much DRAMA so he doesn't have to answer. it can get kinda ugly.
Now I can't help but think about it all the time. I'm really in love with him, but I'm not interested in staying with him if he has cheated and can't even admit it. It's not the cheating that gets me it's the lying to my face part that drives me nuts. He'll never openly admit it. I want to find a way to make him tell me without realizing that he's telling me. This whole thing is making my stomach sick. Does anyone have any advice?? Thank you ladies for taking the time to help a girl out
