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Fantasy is quite different from reality. In fantasy, there isn't any risk. In your threesome example, she was only imagining the excitement and pleasure associated with that idea. Once you started pointing out girls, it became too real and she started thinking about all the bad things that could happen... "What if he likes being with her more than with me?", "What if they want to do it again... without me?", etc.
Acting out any fantasy that pushes you out of your comfort zone requires a LOT of trust and understanding of each others limits and boundaries. It usually takes a long time and a lot of communication for the people involved to be comfortable enough to actually go through with it.
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