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I'm a little confused. Are you sure it's not YOU who's wanting to do stuff outside the "norm," and you need her to make the first move so that you have a reason to explore?
If she clearly doesn't want to follow up on things she mentioned in the past--then you kind of just have to take her at her word, and let things develop over time (if ever). I am sure she will be more than grateful to know that you are at least willing to explore your sexual relationship with her, and as long as you remain supportive and open of that, I don't see why she wouldn't talk to you about it later.
But if she truly just no longer wants to do those things--are you going to be okay with it? I ask because the tone of your post is almost like, "I really WISH she would want to do these things, so that I could try them, too..." But I might be reading you wrong, so let me know.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
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