angelpain

So.. I'll start with my break up story first my story is a little different this relationship only lasted 2 long days and a few wasted phone calls
Last year I went on a blind date with someone that was my complete opposite.
Good jewish boy that is the only child. I guess the only thing he care was that i was jewish as well.
So the first date was okay. We talked a lot about our families and where our lives were leading us and stuff like that. I guess he was head over heels for me. But I just felt really uncomfortable. Apparently I was his first encounter with the female world. OY VIE!!! He tried kissing me. It felt like a dead corpse. There was no fireworks or my heart wasn't pondering out of my chest. NOTHING!! My brain was telling me to end this now since it's only been 2 dates nothing long term as happened. This guy wasn't my type. He liked to get his nails done for Christ sake. I like a guy that is ready in 5 minutes, that can keep up his part of the conversation and i want to feel this excitement every time i see or touch him. So a few days after our second date. I had a conversation with both a friend and my ex now my best friend and even recently my cousin( the blind date was his mother's suggestion and he waited a year after the horrible date to tell me that this guy wasn't my type). Which was exactly what my best friend who is also my ex told me. His exact words were " sweetie you went from dating the tattooed freak to the one thing you hate the most; and for what to make your parents happy shame on you; you need to end this before you end up making a mistake." So I did. I called the guy up by phone since I was on campus and couldn't leave. I went somewhere quiet and tried to first try and dump him nicely and on good terms. I'm to make up an excuse that being in college, with extreme study sessions and being a part of some groups on campus plus work are taking huge amounts of my time. And to be honest I'm not looking for anything long term because my last boyfriend couldn't take it being number 2(that was actually true).
I tried but this guy wouldn't take the message and say "well, it was fun while it lasted" instead he was trying to resolve the issues I presented and that "we " could find a solution and thats where I snapped and heard my friend's voice say you tried being sweet but now just be direct and say I don't like you, I'm sorry but I not interested in you the same way you are to me. I'm not your type of girl. I like guys with tats, can hold their liquor, and i would probably find at a metal concert or goth club. We only went on 2 dates thats it. i'm done good bye. and after that i deleted his no. from my cell.

And well on the side of being the dumpee: My prior ex that I was dating for years dumped be exactly around the same time as the blind date from hell. He broke up with me the funniest way ever. Using his voicemail. knowing i would call him he left this god awful message that said his in London by now shagging some random chick or 2 and hopes that the news drives me insane. it didn't. and i left him one back saying "hmm, so does this mean i'll never get back my kill bill vols 1 and 2 back ever than?"