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Originally Posted by shesus
I don't think a question of bad or good.
Just as people are different so are the situations. I think it's more of healthy/unhealthy. Is someone being harmed or covering up other problems by having a Plan B relationship? If one is in a primary relationship, whythe need for a Plan B person? and If one is single, why would one want to be a Plan B person for someone who is already in a relationship?
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At this point, I think our friendship is very healthy. No harm done as far as I can tell. The reason why I'm not jumping the gun is stated above. It's a combination of her being taken at the moment and me not being ready to settle down. If I do date her, it'll be serious because I think she's worth it. No casual dating or testing the water. Does that make sense at all?