I've had a couple of plan B relationships, primarily in high school. I've also been someone else's plan B, and usually ended it when I found out I wasn't plan A.
Now that I've grown up a bit and become a lot more selective about the person I date, plan B relationships just seem ridiculous and are usually indicative of problems in the primary relationship.
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"Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark."
— Henri-Frédéric Amiel
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