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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
Apparently I'm on the low end of emotional energy spectrum. How in the world do people have the ability to even contemplate Plan B if they're giving Plan A their all?
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Jewels gave the answer.
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Originally Posted by Jewels
It's a sign that the relationship needs some TLC.
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If you are satisfied in the primary relationship, there is no reason for a Plan B. If you are insecure or there are rocky times in the relationship, you probably aren't giving it your all which makes a little room to entertain Plan B.
Then, if/when the Primary Relationship fails, the person won't be alone. That's why it's not good or bad, it's a symptom of a problem in the primary relationship.
And girldetective, I honestly have no clue as to what you are talking about. You are not making it clear, at least to me. Are you in an affair with a person in a relationship? Are you with a player where there is no real attachment to anyone? You've posted several times and I still don't get it.