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Originally Posted by JumpinJesus
... people who maintain a Plan B relationship are expecting their current relationship to eventually fail. One can't maintain a healthy relationship when you have one foot perpetually out the door. Also, if I found out I were someone's Plan B, I would have very little to do with that person. It's manipulative and needy and I don't find that attractive in the least.
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Bingo. Unhealthy for the planner's current relationship and unhealthy for the Plan B person.
Been there, done that. It's a sign that the relationship needs some TLC.