JJ: Check out post #4. I agree with the OP. I know this from recent experience. It went down like this : lover = Plan B = girldetective coming to her senses = Plan A = girldetective seriously reconsidering = Plan B.
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The question to me was : Do you think being a Plan B person is a good thing?
My answer was : Being a Plan B person can be very good if your SO maintains the relationship in a way that keeps one in love.
I dont think stringing along is what I meant. But maybe youre right. As good as Plan B can be, I keep trying to talk myself out of it.
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