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Originally Posted by girldetective
Shesus: Being a Plan B person can be very good if your SO maintains the relationship in a way that keeps one in love. The issue seems to be boundaries - of all kinds.
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As I was reading your reply, I was first unsure whether this truly addressed the post regarding Plan B relationships, but then as I was considering a response, this statement kept sticking in my head.
I'm not sure I understand what you're getting at here. What I'm getting is that you're referring to being the other woman in a love triangle and that this is a desirable position as long as the man strings the other woman along?
In regards to the Original Post, I have to say that people who maintain a Plan B relationship are expecting their current relationship to eventually fail. One can't maintain a healthy relationship when you have one foot perpetually out the door. Also, if I found out I were someone's Plan B, I would have very little to do with that person. It's manipulative and needy and I don't find that attractive in the least.