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Originally Posted by dlish
cant believe that most people are telling him to get it over with.
most religious people or ex-religious people have hang ups about sex. it was always a taboo, and breaking down those barriers are hard to do.
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I am ex-religious, and I know the thought process well. It's hard to go against a lifetime of brainwashing, but if you're still clinging to your hang ups, you won't be free of the the beliefs you discarded. I had a very unhealthy attitude toward sex for years after I ditched religion.
I see this as being like many advice threads: he knows what he wants to do and either consciously or subconsciously wants us to convince him that what he's thinking and feeling are right.