If you have chemistry, you tend to ignore everything else. I look back and wonder what I was thinking about people I was attracted to in the past, and find that a general rule is "the more I was interested in her, and especially the more I was interested in her, the more flaws I overlooked." I was also young and naive for a lot of those that are coming to mind and am realizing that while I thought I was thinking with my brain, I was really thinking with my head and leaving my brain to justify it.
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