Actually I think the only men that would have a problem with a woman who has extra weight after childbirth have never been with a woman who had a child!! I mean come on, when a man sees you go through all of that first hand it has to change his frame of mind on what he can expect your body to be like. He sees how your body changes up close and personal those nine or so (10 for me) months and there is no way in hell any man with any sense at all in his head can expect you to be the same afterward!!
I would kick a man to the curb so fast his head would spin if he for one minute made any negative comment about my after baby figure. Men get HUGE bellies for much less then carrying a child and woman are supposed to be ok with that!!
Oh and one more thing, you can't speculate how on how you will be able to work out or get in shape after having a child. When you give birth you are so wrapped up in the child's world, your own really takes a back seat. I would like to say I could work out three times a week and get back to where I was, but with the amount of energy I have left after taking care of a one year old all day, that is not possible for me.
Last edited by *Nikki*; 06-24-2008 at 12:04 PM..
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