Jinn

Wow. Unfortunately, there's not much you can do for her other than let her know that she can get love without the craziness. This seems like a flashback to a childhood where she had an abusive relationship with an adult, one who made her believe that the only way she'd be loved would be to put up with their destructive behaviors.

There's very little you can do for an adult who hasn't shaken this feeling, because they think they're acting independently of their past and their own belief systems.

I don't know about Seattle, but here there are two kinds of strip clubs:

21 and up, alcohol served, only topless nudity.
18 and up, no alcohol served, full nudity.

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