For some reason, I am not in favour of choosing my home because it's close to work...I just can't live in function of where I work. Though I can see the attraction. In my free time, I want to be in the area I want to spend my free time in. Which is what I currently do. I have a 45 min commute + waiting time also.
I agree that walls of windows, a deck and a wharf are very appealing...just make sure you will make the most of it though, otherwise it's pointless having them. I would find it hard to live somewhere funky (in the negative sense). I like new and clean...or at least renovated heh. I'd definitely go with the place where I feel most at home in. With my current house, I had seen lots of other before it, but when I walked in it, and saw it, I knew that it was the one I would choose.
I also have never heard of groovy parks but I'm curious to see one!