Since this thread is back from the grave, I'll offer my advice to any newbies of lurkers who are reading.
Take the high ground. Whether you work things out or end it, be a big man/woman and make it clear that you won't tolerate a violation of the trust your relationship is built on. It's up to you to figure out whether forgiving and giving another chance is for you, and if you go the severance route, make sure you wrap it up before you give it a tour of the town.
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