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consider how shallow this is from a long term relationship perspective.

from a dating perspective.. sure it's fine, the commitment is up until there is a dealbreaker.

from a long term relationship perspective, the dealbreakers are of a much higher standard.

continuing from the long term, she's going to change, you're going to change. life will change both of you and your circumstances. this means becoming different people from what you are now in some fashion being it physical, emotional, mental, financial.

i know we've had a discussion like this, but if weight is a dealbreaker for you now, what happens say when you decide to settle with a woman takes care of herself etc, who follows what your desire is and then finds out later she has a thyroid problem. There's little she can do but gain weight, it's not her fault...

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