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Originally Posted by fresnelly
Partly a good match: She's decisive, I'm an accomodater.
Neither of us are consumed by insecurities or a need for drama.
We're financially comfortable.
Our extended families are decent and supportive people rather than sources of anxiety.
Our tempermants align. We both prefer a quiet night at home than a wild night on the town.
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Except for the financially comfortable part, thats us as well. My parents and his parents are awesome, both sets going on 40 years of marriage and each of our parents loves their "in law" as much as they love their own child (although I kid him and say my parents love him more than they love me lol)
I have thought and thought since last nite, and nope there have never been any issues, not about money, not about sex, not about my daughter, nor the toilet seat or cleaning.
The day I met Dave, I had just said that morning, I was giving up on men...I'd find me a fuck buddy and I'd be just fine(and I really meant it)...in fact thats the only reason I answered his online personal....for a fuck buddy....some higher power had other ideas lol
I think it would prob be right to say that those of us that are this happy have learned one of the most important things is not who did or didnt leave the toilet seat up....but communication?