Romance is not dead. Many just do not know what "romance" is. Romance is not predatory, but a series of events.
True romance is not a one day/night ordeal. It involves what you hope will be a commitment between the two of you. It involves a basic knowledge of the other. And it does not have to be expensive - favorite color/smell/flower/etc. What is it that she/he likes to do in the spare time? Make yourself available and open to do what she/he wants to do. Keep yourself at a distance in the beginning to learn, and let her/him know you want to be serious about a relationship (no one night stands).
True romance involves knowing just who you and your partner are. Flowers on a Monday? Why - no reason, just thought you would enjoy them.
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